{"id":2674,"date":"2025-10-16T21:59:10","date_gmt":"2025-10-16T21:59:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/everyonesdiary.com\/?p=2674"},"modified":"2025-10-16T21:59:10","modified_gmt":"2025-10-16T21:59:10","slug":"when-i-turned-36-neighbors-used-to-murmur-at-that-age-and-still-without-a-wife-hell-be-a-bachelor-forever","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/everyonesdiary.com\/?p=2674","title":{"rendered":"When I turned 36, neighbors used to murmur, \u201cAt that age and still without a wife? He\u2019ll be a bachelor forever!\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"81\" data-end=\"459\">I\u2019d dated before, but nothing lasted. Over time, I grew used to solitude\u2014tending my garden, raising chickens, and living simply on the outskirts of a small Midwestern town. One chilly afternoon at the farmer\u2019s market, I noticed a thin woman in worn clothes asking for food. Her gentle eyes held deep sorrow. I gave her a sandwich and water. 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