The parents of 10-year-old Autumn Bushman, a fourth-grader at Mountain View Elementary in Roanoke, Virginia, are grieving the sudden loss of their daughter. Mark and Summer Bushman shared that they noticed troubling changes in Autumn’s behavior weeks before her passing.

“She was the youngest and probably the wildest,” her mother said. “She was full of energy—always doing cartwheels in the living room.” But recently, Autumn began sleeping more, smiling less, and wearing darker clothes. Her obituary described her as deeply empathetic and kind-hearted, always ready to listen and support others.

Sadly, Autumn was a victim of bullying at school and online. Despite her parents reporting the bullying, they say little was done. Autumn often defended others who were being picked on, which may have made her a target. “If someone was being picked on, she would defend them,” her mother explained.

Her father added that social media worsened the problem. “At this age, they all have tablets and phones—it happens around the clock. They can’t really escape it,” he said.

Roanoke County Public Schools called Autumn’s death a “tragic loss” and expressed sympathy, noting they take bullying reports seriously and are reviewing the situation. They stressed efforts to work with families and promote kindness among students.

Autumn’s parents urge others to watch for warning signs. “Go through your child’s phone,” Summer advised. “Make sure they’re being kind—and that others are being kind to them.” Their heartbreaking story highlights the urgent need for awareness and compassion in protecting children.