Visitation Dreams: Finding Comfort Beyond Loss
Losing a loved one is one of life’s most painful experiences, and everyone grieves in their own way. Some cry, others withdraw, and many search for ways to fill the emptiness left behind. For some, comfort comes through dreams—vivid encounters where the deceased seem to return, alive and present. These experiences, often called visitation dreams, can feel deeply emotional and leave the dreamer wondering whether they are simple memories or something more profound.
Experts describe visitation dreams as those in which the deceased appear healthy, peaceful, and communicate directly with the dreamer. Patrick McNamara, associate professor of neurology and psychiatry at Boston University, notes that in these moments “the dead appear to the bereaved in dreams and look to be very much alive.” After experiencing such dreams himself, McNamara reconsidered his skepticism about life after death, acknowledging the powerful sense of connection they bring.
Psychologically, these dreams may help individuals process grief and find comfort. A 2014 study in the American Journal of Hospice and Palliative Care found that visitation dreams are common and often promote emotional healing. Participants reported seeing loved ones happy and offering reassurance. Similarly, a 2016 Canadian study revealed that more than two-thirds of bereaved individuals felt their dreams strengthened their faith in an afterlife and deepened their emotional bond with the deceased.
Psychologist Jennifer E. Shorter identified four recurring traits: the deceased appear healthy, convey peace, communicate telepathically, and leave the dreamer feeling calm. Whether viewed as spiritual or psychological, visitation dreams remind us that love can transcend even death.
