When I first read my mom’s text about it being her “time now,” I felt furious and overwhelmed. Despite everything she’d done for me, I was drowning in debt and barely managing rent and bills. I almost fired back a harsh message but chose to call her instead.
During our conversation, she explained she had sacrificed her dreams to give me opportunities, but now it was time for me to take responsibility. She refused to just hand me money, saying that wouldn’t fix the problem. Instead, she offered to help me learn how to manage my finances properly.
Reluctantly, I agreed. Over the next few months, we worked together on budgeting, cutting expenses, and tracking spending. I took on a side job and slowly chipped away at my debt. For the first time, I felt in control of my money—and my life.
I stopped resenting her freedom and started feeling proud. The biggest lesson? No one owes you a rescue. When you save yourself, it’s a victory that truly belongs to you.
