Emma, a 38-year-old mother, shared her parenting style with Usa-People, seeking advice and support. She decided to adopt a gentle, understanding approach to raising her 8-year-old son, Georgie, influenced by her own tough upbringing under strict parental rules. Emma’s childhood taught her the negative impact of authoritarian parenting, which led to anxiety and strained relationships. Determined not to repeat this with Georgie, she prioritizes love, respect, and open communication. She doesn’t force her son to apologize when he makes mistakes, believing that such actions can be psychologically harmful and teach children to be insincere. Instead, she models behavior, like apologizing herself when Georgie pushes another child at the playground. However, her approach is met with criticism, particularly from her husband, who prefers a stricter parenting style, and from other parents who disapprove of her methods. Emma believes in nurturing a strong, respectful bond with her son, helping him navigate emotions and responsibilities while maintaining authority without superiority. Despite seeing positive results, she feels uncertain due to the constant criticism. Emma is seeking advice on whether her parenting approach is effective or misguided.